While we are flattered when we catch an attention from the opposite sex, please show it discreetly naman. We appreciate glances BUT we are disgusted when you stare at us like you are stripping us naked. And when we catch your eyes while looking at us, we expect you to turn your gaze away first. Otherwise, we would take it as if you want to say something to us. When we raise both eyebrows, we expect you to say something and not continually stare at us while a picture of sarcasm is painted on your face. Ano, magtititigan ba tayo? And when we ask you why you are staring at us, do not throw back the question: "Why, is it bad?" because the answer is definitely YES. Why? Because, for God's sake, you are a complete stranger to us and we do not know you!! Your action only shows what kind of person you are--- a disrespectful, imprudent bastard who lacks manners.
And reminder, if you really can't help but stare at us in the jeep, do not sit beside us. You are just making yourself too obvious, it would make us very uncomfortable and do not blame us when we get fuming mad at you and you hear words you swear you don't wanna hear. Although we are both of the same tribe, it doesn't mean you are given the permission to stare at us like that. In fact, you are supposed to be more respectful and protective of us.
Whoever you are, we hope you learned your lesson. You deserve it.
Somehow, we appreciate the apologies. We know we are drool-worthy but like we said, never do it to any woman because what you received from us tonight is the minimum, because you know what, you deserve some spanking!!
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I so know what you mean. Kahit guwapo pa siya, in that case, it turns out to be more scary than anything else. I've had several experiences with sort of men and what I do is take re-route or go to other places(other than my destination) and get him lost.
*drool-worthy* yeah ba! hahaha
HI..I hate those guys who stare girls/women from head to toe like they are stripping her..I admit I look at girls because i admire them but not if they are with their bf..i dont like guys staring at other guy's gf cause I dont want them to stare or strip my gf..I welcome admiration of other guy's to my gf but not to the point that you are already stripping her kasi nakakabastos un lalo na kasama ko pa so parang hinahamon mo ako..guys respect lang wag naman mambastos what if mom mo or sis mo un would you be glad..btw like your blog kaya nagcomment nalang ako hehe hope u dont mind..
sharing the same sentiments!!! :D right on, doc!
haha. im in a dilemna/dilemma (try googling the word). I dont do that "stare" thing but one friend made a comment "Suplado ka ata Addy kasi hindi ka tumitingin/tumititig sa mga babae. Parang we dont exist at all". I said " tumititig/tumitingin naman. Hindi nyo lang nahahalata" :-) ano ba dapat?
1. dapat nyo bang mahalata?
2. dapat bang "long enough"?
3. dapat bang nakasmile even from strangers?
4. dapat ba gwapo/cute? hehe
i have to agree ai. although i haven't been through what you experienced. i think girls have this instinct kelan ang "tingin" from guys are harmless admiration or become creepy stares na.
@bumblemumble: kung gwapo siya, it would be a major turn-off. hehe.
@marksay: hi mark! sure, i don't mind. :) those guys who are staring long enough at someone else's gf is definitely picking up a huge fight. hehe. that's just so rude.
@addyone: LOL, kuya addy! :) i think dapat na mahalata namin na we caught your attention, hahaba hairs namin jan. but withdraw it immediately, kasi it would be very awkward. diba? like what happened last night. grrrr.... a friendly smile from a stranger won't do harm siguro, but not the sarcastic one. yung parang may dumi kami sa mukha. hahah! that'd be very offensive. kung dapat gwapo/cute, ummmm...depende. hahahah! :)
@lawkaret: women are just instinctive. diba? we always have this feeling, and most of the time, we are right. char!
"harmless admiration" - ok to ah :-)
@ai: mukhang contradicting statements. hehe
"@bumblemumble: kung gwapo siya, it would be a major turn-off. hehe."
"@addyone:kung dapat gwapo/cute, ummmm...depende. hahahah! :)"
i just remembered a line dropped by my classmate last night. "pag gwapo, admirer. pag pangit, stalker." hahaha! :))
btw, ang tapang niyo. you really did scold the guy or something? i could never do something like that. haha. good job!
you're right ai! hehe.
Well, yeah, you're right. Nakakairita nga talaga ang ganu'n, pero sa akin naman, wala na akong pakialam sa kanila. Mamatay sila katititig! Makikipagtitigan pa ako! Matira ang matibay opama. Basta, huwag lang talaga ako diretsahang kausapin ng pabastos o sabihan ng anything na bastos at huwag na huwag akong hawakan kundi makakatikim sa akin 'yung tao! Pero kung titig lang, hindi ko na mina-mind. Smile/Smirk na as if may dumi ako sa mukha? Basta alam ko na wala naman, mag-smile lang sila o tumawa hanggang mabaliw sila! Haha! :)
@addyone: i just noticed! :) tama si rocaya: "pag gwapo, admirer. pag pangit, stalker." hahahah! but i guess, i'll stick to the first statement---being a major turn off.
@rocaya: yep, we scold the guy. manhid eh. i withdrew my gaze at first kasi nagkakatitigan kami, eh mukhang gusto talagang makipagtitigan. the second time around, tinanong ko ba't siya nakatitig. dun na, tinanong niya kung masama ba daw. dun na uminit ulo ko. bastos talaga eh. tsk tsk. i used to NOT do things like that too, pero ngayon, i give people a piece of my mind na. lalo na 'pag intolerable na. hahahah! :)
@diandraditma: Hahahahah! Ate, nakipagtitigan din ako at first pero hindi ko kinaya kasi sarcastic yung tingin niya. Nainis talaga ko. LOL.
ew, incurable professional flirt siguro yon. thought makuha kayo sa tingin? grrr! *haha, galit ang lola. can feel you doc.*
haha. naalala ko tuloy nung duty days namin sa iligan. meron din akong medyo ganyan na experience. naku. pinagsabihan ko talaga yung lalake.
nakakainis din minsan yung ganyan kasi di mo talaga mapigilan pag me nakatingin sa'yo, mapapatingin ka rin diba. di mo madidedma.
Ei, di niyo khasowa si Habibah a ko masowa iyan aya na aya bo a minitokaw o mama na nggonongan niyan! Haha! :)
ma'am diane, hahaha! habibah talaga oh! opama na maawid sa g'lat bapya anda p'sung? may pagka-action star ah.
wait, so mama na nggunungan iyan si habibah? scary kung ganun.
wait, so mama na nggunungan iyan si habibah? scary kung ganun.
Ainao, ba ka den miyakabaling sa Saudi sa di ka den zabot sa Meranao. Hehe:) Si Habibah i nggonong ko mama. Oway, aden a gelat i Habibah. 'Di ba, aya bo a minitokaw o mama na nakatutok sa mukha niya 'yung kutsilyo. Si Habibah na di pen khada-an sa timbak! Di ngka aya khatoosan a kuwento? Ikinuwento niya noong applicants pa kayo sa RC, 'di ba? :)
nakwento sa'kin ni Habibah yung 'bout dun sa "gunong" incident. ko kawaraw a wata. hindi ata yun kakayanin ng powers ko but siguro kung andun ako sa ganung sitwasyon and aden peman a gelat aken na khiliyo dun a osto. lalabas lahat ng adrenaline ko. hehe. :D dati na ginusto kong magdala ng balisong kaya lang sabi ni Papa 'wag na lang daw. but i learned a technique na tinuro ni Bati Duma when i was in karate class: always bring a key. ipitin yung pointed part ng key between your fingers while you're making a fist so that when you punch the "villain", tatama yun sa mukha niya. madugo. hehe. :D
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