Sydney 2015

Life is indeed full of surprises, best things come when you least expect it and when it does, never waste a single opportunity to just hold a grab onto it. My husband has been anticipating since late last year a retooling seminar for the Finance Officers of the Philippines Embassies all over South East Asia and the Pacific. The choices for the host Phil. Embassy were Bangkok, Tokyo or Seoul. Ever since my pregnancy news came out, the husband postponed all possible trips we were planning. Like I mentioned in my previous post, he almost wants to lock me inside the house to ensure my safety! I even missed a friend's wedding in Brunei since it fell on my 11th week of pregnancy (1st trimester) and I was advised by my OB to postpone any trip abroad at that time. Ugh. 

The date and the venue of his retooling seminar was uncertain until early February when it was announced that it will be on March in Sydney, Australia!!! I immediately figured that it will fall on my second trimester when I am feeling much better without the nausea and headaches! I definitely knew my OB will allow me to go on travel abroad so I persuaded my husband to tag me along. I was one million times more excited than my husband. Haha! He's coming there to work while I am touring around the city! True enough, I made our one-week stay in Sydney a memorable one. Thanks to Lonely Planet's Pocket Sydney travel guide for giving me an idea on how to make the most out of our trip. :) 

As expected, I took a lot of photos (I used Canon EOS M on a default setting, lol) but I am so technogrant as to how to put them easily into a collage to share with you. So, I am only posting the very important ones as I walk you through our 5-day Sydney trip.  

SYDNEY OPERA HOUSE. I took this photo aboard the ferry on our way to Mosman on the North Shore. I think this is the BEST photo I took during the whole trip. Haha! 

American architect Louis Kahn once said: "The sun did not know how beautiful its light was, until it was reflected off this building". 

Day 1

Our room in Travelodge Hotel. It looks like a budget hotel with a 3-star hotel price (Bangkok and Manila standard), no other amenities and has the worst breakfast buffet ever. Haha! The only good thing about it is its accessibility to the Hay Market and the City Centre, and they have Filipino employees who proved to be very helpful. It is where we were booked by the Sydney PCG, so we cannot complain. We weren't there to go on tour naman talaga. Ako lang. Haha!

We stayed in a hotel in the same building as the Philippine Consulate General in Sydney, where husband's seminar was held. He attends to the seminar during the day while I roam around the City Centre and later he joins me on evenings together with his colleague and personal friend of mine, Nihaya (we call her Nigi). What I loved about our location was that it is almost walking distance to most of the establishments or tourist spots I wished to see so it saved me a lot of penny considering how high the cost of everything in Sydney are!    

ANZAC MEMORIAL. "Of Love and Loyalty...this work of love and loyalty has not ceased. There remained today, sixteen years since fighting ended, thousands of diggers for whom the war can never cease --- the maimed, the paralysed, the blind...there remain also their wives and the children, and the widows and children of men killed in war."

I started walking to Hyde Park, apparently the oldest park in Sydney, which is just across the hotel building. My first stop was Anzac Memorial Building inside the park, a building dedicated to all Australian young men and women who served in wars and conflicts.  

Tree-formed tunnel running down the park. 

Sydney is the most environment-friendly and least polluted city I have ever been. There are no major skyways and foot bridges around the city, and the streets are lined with trees providing canopy to all forms of uncommon birds and animals you see freely wandering around the city. It is a very ideal place to live in, mashaaAllah.  

Adjacent to Hyde Park is St. Mary's Cathedral, the largest cathedral in the city. Built to last, this Gothic Revival megalith was begun in 1868 and was substantially finished in 1928. Grateful to my tripod and the camera's self-timer for most of my shots, kaya siempre nakatingin si Kuya. Hehe

Emerging from Hyde Park, I found myself meandering along Macquarie Street, the center of government. From this point on, I was able to see a lot of interesting buildings and establishments as I walked down the road. First was Hyde Park Barracks Museum, a Georgian structure which served as convict quarters in the late 19th and early 20th century, then later became an immigration depot, women's asylum, and law court.

It is listed as one of the UNESCO World Heritage Site. Since I have no one to take my photo, I had my foot included as a proof that yes, I set my foot on another UNESCO heritage site. Haha! Masabi lang. 

I also passed by The Mint, an old building (built in 1816) which now serves as the Head Office of the Sydney Living Museums. Next to it is Sydney Hospital, Australia's oldest hospital which has a Victorian sandstone facade. I noticed that the city government did not fully succumbed to modern architecture by preserving their numerous century-old Victorian buildings. I can't help but think that it may have the same vibe as in London or in other European cities. Naks!  

IL PORCELLINO

Next to Sydney Hospital is the State Library of New South Wales, it is a modern library connected by a bridge to the Public Library of NSW. I can't help but linger a little bit more and envy the students freely accessing all the necessary information in their beautiful state-of-the-art library.   

MashaaAllah! My eyes grew bigger at the vastness of its book collections, deafened by the silence and I was drooling with envy at the students fully concentrated on studying. IT IS MY DREAM UNI LIBRARY!!! I can't wait to show this to my librarian Mom. Heehee. 

The vast PUBLIC LIBRARY OF NSW. 

I had to cross The Domain, an immensely green sports park near the Royal Botanic Garden to reach the Art Gallery of NSW. If you live in this clean and green city, there's no reason for you not to live a healthy lifestyle. REALLY. Imagine, I only walked from one point to another approximately 4-5 kilometers from the hotel, resting in every building I go to and I didn't feel exhausted at all. At least not on that day. Haha! So imagine my husband's worry when I showed him all the destinations I've been to on that particular day. Haha! I keep on assuring him I was okay and I can manage. 

Health buffs at THE DOMAIN.

One of my Sydney highlights is my visit to the Art Gallery of New South Wales. My jaw literally dropped at their wide, extensive and all-original collections of 19th and 20th century European, Australian/Aboriginal and Asian paintings, sculptures and other form of arts. It's my first time to see a real Van Gogh (Head of a Peasant, 1884) and Picasso (Woman Lying On A Couch 1939, Nude In A Rocking Chair, 1956) paintings! Plenty is an understatement for the interesting pieces in the gallery's collections.    

Bertram Mackennal's THE DANCER (1904). 

THE JOHN SCHAEFFER GALLERIES

Charles Bell Birch's RETALIATION (1878)

The husband and Nigi joined me later to Circular Quay to visit Sydney Opera House and to have a glimpse of the Harbour Bridge.

My high school friend and classmate (Mendeleev) Nihaya, also an accountant and presently the FO of the Philippine Mission to ASEAN in Jakarta, Indonesia. 

Lovers in front of the Opera House. NOT JUST US. Notice those lovebirds shooting their pre-nup video. How romantic that would be. I was thinking of shooting some sweety-sweety photos but the husband is so KJ he's not into those stuff. AWR-KAY. *rolls eyes*

On the same night, we had a buffet dinner at the Sydney Eye Tower revolving restaurant to have a 360-degree view of the city. It was Nigi who suggested we go dine here for the view as the buffet excites me more than dining in a revolving restaurant on top of a tower. Haha! 

A view from the SYDNEY EYE TOWER. 

Day 2

The days that followed were not as packed as the first day, I would usually leave the hotel past noon to see more of the city. I dared not miss the expansive Royal Botanic Gardens which is a favorite picnic, jogging route and snuggling spot for lovers. The garden is home to the Government House, Sydney Tropical Center and on its northeastern tip is Mrs Macquaries Point, a spot which provides beautiful view over the bay to the Opera House and city skyline. 

People usually come here to rest under the shade of the century-old oak trees, others would simply bathe under the sun. 

The garden is where one can perfectly find absolute serenity to escape the hustles of the city. I wish on that day that the husband was with me because the place is very romantic. <3 

MRS MACQUARIES CHAIR. 

Mrs Elizabeth Macquarie was the governor's wife who ordered a seat chiseled into a rock from which she could view the harbour. It is a beautiful sight, indeed, and a perfect place to relax after going around the vastness of the garden. I wasn't able to see everything because of how tiresome it was!  

<3 <3 <3 

A family playing with the seagulls.

Seagulls and other birds are all over Sydney! Here in Bangkok, there are pigeons, too, but they're usually found only in the parks. But in Sydney, animals and birds are wandering and co-existing freely with the people. It says so much of how nature-lovers Australians are. 

Behind me is the WURRUNGWURI

Wurrungwuri is that giant sculptural waveform made of sandstone blocks. The gaps within the sculpture and the wave troughs are intended to create habitats for plants, insects, birds and micro-bats. How cool is that?  

Parang nasa Golf Course lang. :) 

The summer has just ended when we arrived in Sydney so the weather was just perfect for walking around while the cool wind blows. It would sometimes rain in the afternoon which reminds me so much of MSU weather. 

Day 3

The downside of being in a non-Asian city is the difficulty of finding RICE to eat!! Hahahaha! Before I got pregnant, bread and pasta would last me for days. I wasn't much of a rice person. But when I got pregnant, I can't live without rice! Now I know how most of my friends feel when they say no food satiates their hunger until they've eaten rice. On the third day, I was desperately looking for rice to eat. The great things about our hotel location is that it is also near Chinatown where Asian restaurants line the street, may it be Chinese, Korean, Japanese or Thai. Good thing I found a relatively affordable Japanese restaurant where I can have all the rice I want! Everywhere I go, whether Aussie or non-Aussie resto, a simple meal's price ranges from 9-15 AUD for one person, mahal pa rin based on my kuripot standard, but embracing the high-endness of the culture in a first world country is part of the traveling experience. Better not to mentally convert every penny you spend so you won't get a headache and you get to enjoy everything. Haha!    

Chicken Teriyake Bento

On the third day, I explored more of the southern part of the city from the hotel. I went to Paddy's market for some bargains and crossed to Chinatown.

PADDY'S MARKET 

One of the best things to do when you're new in the city is to explore by walking while sight-seeing. There were hop-on hop-off buses if you feel tired to walk, but walking gives you more time to enjoy the sights. For instance, I found this weird-shaped building owned by the University of Technology Sydney along Ultimo road, I have no idea who the architect or designer was but it certainly caught my attention.  

UNIVERSITY OF TECHNOLOGY SYDNEY BUILDING

Since I was already in the Chinatown vicinity, I can't help but take a peek at the Chinese Garden of Friendship. It was built as a gift from the government of Guangzhou, China which is considered by the government of Sydney as its sister city. It is not a huge garden but it interweaves pavilions, waterfalls, lakes, paths and lush plant life. Lonely Planet described it as being too serene for words.  

Falls in the heart of the city

View from the top of the serene CHINESE GARDEN

What's being in Sydney without watching an opera or a play at the Sydney Opera House? Of course my friend Nigi and I grabbed the opportunity. We chose a Shakespearean romantic comedy play entitled As You Like It. It was brilliant! Back in high school, we did a very lousy Macbeth play I can't even remember my character; another one we did was The Tempest where I played Miranda. I've also seen A Midsummer Night's Dream in a university play when I was in college, I remember the actors and actresses did really well on that play. 

The husband didn't join us watching the play, because obviously, he's not at all interested in these kind of stuff. I was only lucky that Nigi was as equally enthusiastic as I was. Hehe. 

Waiting for the second act. 

My knight without an armor (haha) waiting for us outside the opera house.

Day 4

I dared not miss going to the Museum of Contemporary Arts whose art collections range from photography to Aboriginal bark paintings, and using daily materials to convey poetic and extraordinary messages. 

AUTOMATED COLOUR FIELD (2011) made up of flip-clocks arranged in a grid. 

I walked around The Rocks to have a glimpse of the old buildings along that street where street artists are making a living. 

LIVING STATUE

On my way back to the hotel, I returned to the Royal Botanic Gardens only to have this photo taken in front of the Government House. Haha! Pagbigyan. 

Alice in Wonderland in front of GOVERNMENT HOUSE

Later that day, we had a sumptuous dinner at Darling Harbour lined with restaurants, bars and clubs. We lingered a little longer while transgenders and cross-dressers were singing and dancing in public as part of the Mardi Gras celebration that week. The grandiose Mardi Gras parade happened on the day of our flight back home, too bad I missed a fun event.

With Nigi and Vice Consul Lala Gandarosa. The sun sets past 7pm in Australia, hence what looks like an early dinner. 

We explored more of the southern part of the city until we reached the Queen Victoria Building, a high Victorian masterpiece (late 19th century) which has been remodeled through the years, albeit preserving the original mosaic floors, wrought-iron balconies, and the stained-glass shopfronts, and is now a grand mall.   

QUEEN VICTORIA BUILDING

Day 5

I love their two-decked TRAINS!! Sana ganito sa Pilipinas, hindi hassle sumakay ng tren. 

Finally, the seminar was over on the day before our flight so the three of us (Nigi and the hubby) went to the outskirts of the city. The husband is a major sea and sand fan, so Bondi Beach was on our itinerary. We took the earliest train to Bondi Junction and then took the bus to the beach, it was quite far from the city centre but commuting in Sydney was super fun and no hassles at all! I admire their subway and other transpo services! Excellent! 

The fine sand of the vast BONDI BEACH.

Murals. They are everywhere in the city suburbs. 

Bondi beach is basically a surfing area, in fact, surfing schools are everywhere near the beach. Feeling the sand on our feet and the sea breeze on our skin is already enough. Pero feeling ko mas masaya kung naligo kami sa dagat, ang sarap ng mga alon e. :)  

Going to Australia is never complete without an up-close encounter with a kangaroo and a koala bear! Hence, our afternoon was spent at Taronga Zoo located at the northern shore of the city. The zoo is home to 4,000 animals where I have seen some of the endangered ones. I was a Zoology major and it is fascinating to see animals I have never seen before! There were platypus, echidna, tasmanian devil (they're suffering from a disease that brings them to the brink of extinction), a black swan, Australian pelicans, and a whole lot more! 

KOALA BEAR

KANGAROO 

There are things in life that occurs to us earlier than we expect them to happen. Coming to Australia is on the bottom of my travel bucketlist simply because it is a country/continent where people come non-accidentally. It's not like going to Malaysia and you can easily make a sidetrip to Singapore; or like going to one particular European country and then you can just easily tour around the nearby countries via train. People come to Australia for a specific purpose, either business or as tourists. It is more memorable because it is the first country I've been to outside Asia (well, I've only been to Thailand so far. Haha!) and because I am pregnant! It's another thing that I can tell my child when he grows up, that he's been to Australia when he was still inside my tummy. Haha!

Alhamdulillah, my heart is filled with gratitude to the Creator who made it happen and who made everything run smoothly, and of course, gratitude to the husband who tagged me along. I'm such a lucky wife! 

Little One On Its Way!!

Never been posted photos on social media. L-R: the pregnancy test result (forgive my fezz!!!), at 12 weeks AOG, and at 19 weeks AOG 

Alhamdulillah. All praise belongs to Allah, The One and Only Creator, The Giver and Provider of Life. After more than a year in marriage, mostly spent away from each other, and after a year of fervently praying for a little one, Allah has finally blessed us to have a child. The husband and I had been through several heartbreaks after failed attempts for me to get pregnant. Every time he leaves for Nigeria, we always prayed and hoped that fertilization occurs, only for my monthly period to arrive on the day of his flight. It occurred to us twice, and it doubles the pain of our physical separation. But we remained patient, believing that Allah will grant us what we are praying for in His perfect time. Indeed, God never fails to fulfill His promise. 

God did not make it any more difficult for us after I arrived here in Bangkok to finally join my husband for good, He did not let us wait any longer. Imagine our joy when only after a month, I got a positive pregnancy test! I did the test after five days of missed period, half hopeful and half anticipating for another failure. But I guess, you just know in your heart what God is going to bless you with. I can't contain my happiness and gratitude for this blessing! I didn't tell my husband immediately, I waited for him to come home from the office. I did some drama in there though by not telling him directly but by sending him the pregnancy test photo through viber while I went to the kitchen to fetch him a cup of coffee (haha! silly!). He didn't get what it meant for a few seconds, and when he finally figured it out, he immediately pulled me closer to him embracing me and slathering me with kisses while he was getting tear-eyed and expressing gratitude to the Creator. That look on his face was priceless! MashaaAllah.. When this little one grows up, I will always remind him/her of how much we prayed to have him/her and I will describe to him/her the look on his/her father's face the very moment we knew that he/she is coming to our life. :) 

I am already on my 20th week age of gestation (AOG) as of writing time, halfway through the journey. We are so full of excitement for the arrival of our little one that he is already included in our daily life, my husband and I are acting and talking as if he/she is already out in the world. Heehee. I am feeling so much more of God's mercy now that I am pregnant, He doesn't want me to go through difficult pregnancy stresses so He made me a housewife for the mean time. Haha! I am so full of gratitude to my husband who takes care of me so much and is so full of precaution to the extent that he doesn't want me to go out alone by myself especially during my first trimester. My husband is so full of consideration and generosity that I feel so pampered, loved and well-taken cared of. Hihi. I feel so kilig right now by just thinking about it. MashaaAllah. 

We have no clue to as to the baby's gender right now, next prenatal check-up perhaps, but we are already considering several names whether it is a boy or a girl. One thing for certain, the husband and I decided that our children will call us Ama and Ina, just like how the ancient Meranao people call their parents. Haha! Therefore, my Mama and Papa will be called by my children just the same. 

I would like to share a du'a (prayer) I read in the Holy Qur'an, it is a prayer of the Prophet Zakariya when he was asking for an offspring:

"(Transliterated Arabic) Rabbi habli milladunka dhuriyyatan 'tayyibatan innaka samii'u du'aa.

(Translation) O my Lord! Grant unto me from Thee a progeny that is pure; for You are He that hears our prayers."

I never detached the above Qur'anic verse in my daily prayer the moment I decided that it's time for us to have children. The story of the Prophet Zakariya in his quest to have an offspring at an elderly age with a barren wife was an instrument for me to never lose hope in the mercy of Allah. I pray that my child will grow up rightly guided in the straight path, that he grow up to have a heart for righteousness, generosity and a heart filled with love for humanity. I also pray for my family and friends who also wish to be granted an offspring, that they may be granted soon. Again, never lose hope in the mercy of Allah. :) 

A Day in a Housewife's Life

          The word housewife  is strongly attached to household chores such as cooking, tidying up the house, babysitting, doing the laundry and most often than not, in our culture, a woman whose education is not enough to attain a good career outside her home. Our society is plagued with social stigma so when I chose to become a housewife myself, I am not an exception to avoid the social sneer. Most of the people around me thought that I am putting my profession to a waste, having a physician license and a masters in public management majoring in health systems and development is such a huge deal to just throw on the back seat and fly to a country where I don't understand the language and chose to become a plain and boring housewife. It wasn't that I didn't thought about it thoroughly and it wasn't like I didn't wish to find a job here in Bangkok but I know in my heart that before anything else, I want to prioritize my marriage. As husband and wife, we want to make up for all the lost time together.

          When I arrived here, almost five months ago (oh, how time flies!), I made an inquiry as to how I could possibly use my license here to practice as a physician. I found out that being a licensed physician in the Philippines is not enough, that I need to become well-versed with the Thai language. More than that, the Thai people are very patriotic, a foreigner physician seems to have no place in this country. I once met a missionary American physician during an embassy event, and he related that there are only less than ten non-Thai physicians in the whole of Thailand and they're here under a religious missionary group and it wasn't easy for them to penetrate the community. My husband has only a year and a half before his posting ends so I felt that going through all the process would take so much time that before I can finally practice, we are already bound home. That's when I decided to take this year off, take care of my husband's needs and perhaps have a baby. That doesn't mean I am not being unproductive. Haha! Would you agree? As a good friend even told me, I can have all the time in my life to catch up with the books I want to read, and watch all the movies and TV series I've been putting off. That just sounded so great!!

          For almost five months now, my daily life consists of exactly just how I pictured a perfect day in one of the blog posts I wrote several years ago back when I was a medical intern. There are no kids to send to school yet, but it's pretty much exactly just the same. I start the day preparing breakfast for the husband and when he leaves for office, I already have a plan in my head what to cook for lunch. I have quite grasped the husband's taste now so I make sure that I have different set of menu everyday so as not to bore his tastebuds. After he leaves, I then start to tidy up the house starting from our room then out to the living room and lastly, the kitchen. I am not meticulously OC so my cleaning skills is just so-so, just enough that everything is quite in order and dusts don't gather up. Haha! Before I begin preparing for lunch, I still have time to watch my favorite Filipino TV shows online. My cooking? So far, so good. I do mess up sometimes but hey, the husband has no right to complain! Haha! The most priceless prize I get is when he finishes all the food with sweats rolling down his forehead. I just love seeing him like that! I gloat! 

          Afternoons are my me-time. I usually go out to DASA, the nearby second-hand bookshop where I buy most of my books now (Rica Peralejo visited the place and wrote about it on her blog, I feel so kilig that she loved a place that I also love! haha! Fan mode lang. You can read her blog post here). Or sometimes I go to Emporium, the nearest mall which is five-minute walk away. I would just usually find a perfect spot there to read a book. Our nights consists of watching Philippine news and making do with whatever available for dinner. The husband and I made an agreement to "eat light" during supper, sometimes we just have bread or pasta. Two weeks ago, he bought me a blender with food processors so we have fruit shakes every day and experimenting on food that I can grind on the processor. Magamit lang. Hahaha! 

          I am loving the very relaxed state I am in right now. Honestly, it feels like this is the calm before the storm. Yeah, an impeding storm will begin when we return to Manila next year and I start my residency training, in shaa Allah, with a baby we will be taking care of. Yeah, a baby is on its way!! Wohoo! As a prelude to my next post, I am on my 19th week of pregnancy as of writing time. Alhamdulillah. You see? I am not being unproductive here! My body's going through tough times nowadays making this baby inside. Haha! God really has a magnificent way of rewarding our patience. He is making up for the lost time my husband and I were apart, so now He's punishing us for having only each other to talk to day in and day out (except for the occasional Facetime with our families back home and online chats with friends). Right now, I am cherishing every second of my housewife duties and enjoying every moment I spend with my husband. *insert a huge smiley here* 

Words for 2014

Hello 2015!!!

This entry should have been written before 2014 ends but I procrastinated (yet again!!!!) on it that it has been sitting on my drafts for two weeks now. Haha! This is about reflecting on the year that went by. An entry on Rica's blog inspired me to do the same exercise. I contemplated on what transpired during the 365 days of the year 2014 and brought me to these two words: PATIENCE and GRATITUDE, which have been my daily mantra for almost everyday. 

PATIENCE 

People who are close to me knows how impatient I can get. Perhaps, it is something about physicians that we want things done ASAP at the exact right time, or else our patient's life is at stake. We cannot tolerate tardiness and any form of sluggishness. It manifests in the way we walk (we almost fly!), the way we speak (straight to the point, no flowery introductions), and in the way we deal with people. The biggest test of my patience this year was handling my RHU staff (haha! they might be reading this! I still love you girls!!), the nurses and the midwife who are almost always late when we go on duty to Tubaran. Tubaran is roughly around three (3) hours away from Marawi City without a regular transpo vehicle going there. A day before we go to the area (during Mondays), we already contact our suki vehicle owner to give us a ride. I instruct the staff that we meet as early as 6:00 AM (because I know they will arrive at around 7:00 AM anyway, Filipino time y'know) to gather the vaccines and everything we need for the week in Tubaran, and guess what? They usually arrive at around 8:00 AM or even later than that!!!!! And they make me wait almost always all the time!!! They make their BOSS wait!! (hahaha!) My friends, that happens almost EVERY WEEK of my entire tour of duty in Tubaran. What always irked me the most are those who would SMS me on the last minute that they will not come on duty due to selfish reasons they think are valid which renders them absent for the entire week. OMG. Staff problems. They really, really, really tested my patience. Nevertheless, I tried to be patient with them, I never shouted at anyone, I tried to make them understand the nature of our work and that we are not being punished by being assigned in a municipality forgotten by civilization but it is US who CHOSE to be DTTB and NDPs, and that we have no right to complain nor give our RHU clients lesser than our best.

Patience is a virtue that I have cultivated during my DTTB days~~patience with the staff, patience with the bumpy road, patience with some abusive drivers who think that they are gods because our life depends on them, patience with the kind of governance that we have, and patience with some impatient clients in the RHU who wants to be seen first without lining on the queue. My exercise on having a positive attitude helped me in a lot of ways to acquire patience in my daily life. Whenever I got stuck in a traffic in Marawi (traffic caused by irresponsible motor drivers and equally impatient vehicle drivers), I appease myself by thinking that it's ok, that there might be a few traffic knots somewhere but it will be over soon, that I need not complain about it. That eases my hot-headedness and impatience. Haha! Law of attraction, that is. 

GRATITUDE 

I mentioned in my previous posts about me practicing the gratitude attitude. It is the gist of the book The Secret that I told you about, and it is the biggest lesson that I carried on for the entire year of 2014. One of the exercise in the book is holding a pebble in your hand every night before going to bed, close your eyes and think about what you are grateful for for that day. Instead of holding a pebble, I did express my gratitude every salah, that's five times everyday. That also made me realize that as Muslims, we are encouraged to pray 5 times a day not only to ask God a favor but to count our blessings and express our gratitude to The One who provided us with everything in our lives. Alhamdulillah. When you have that gratitude attitude, it would be very easy to turn a negative occurrence into a positive one. That is by looking on the other side of the situation and thanking God that the worse did not happen. 

There were numerous instances during my DTTB days that I have escaped death. One afternoon when my staff and I were going home from Tubaran to Marawi, the FX we were riding was running at a moderate speed when we felt something underneath us went missing. The driver slowly went to a halt, we came out of the vehicle only to find one of our rear wheel was  missing!! Apparently, the axle (the Meranao driver said that the "aksol" went off so I am assuming that he meant the axle. Haha!) went off that's why our rear wheel flew almost 10 feet away!! Thank God it happened in Bacolod Kalawi where there were many houses and a vulcanizing shop nearby so it was easy for us to get some help. A former Vice Mayor in the municipality also passed by at us on his way to the nearby masjid (it was already 6:00PM maghrib time) and went out of his way to help us. He called the experts on car mechanics and after an hour, our wheel got back on its place and off we went. The people who helped us never asked for any monetary compensation whatsoever, a simple and genuine "Salamat ow"  was already enough. Alhamdulillah there were still people like them who are always ready to render a generous service without expecting anything in return. I have not lost hope in humanity after all. :)  I will always think of that experience with a full gratitude in my heart. We arrived in Marawi very late in the evening already, but come to think of it, we could have NOT arrived at all! Apparently, most fatal vehicular crashes are due to broken axles just like what happened to that vehicle we were riding. It could have happened in the darkest areas in Madamba or Madalum where seeking help would be an utmost difficulty. Subhanallah. Things could have been worse. There are plenty of things that I am grateful for, and when I think about those things, everything that I don't have disappears from my mind. That's the power of gratitude. 

Patience and gratitude are the two virtues that I will live through my entire life, in shaa Allah, because I have felt its impact on me and the people surrounding me noticed it too. I am less grumpy now. Occasional na lang. Haha!  

You, what are your words for 2014?